Starting college is so exciting, but we know it can also feel pretty intimidating. For a lot of students, fall semester is the first time living away from home and starting almost completely fresh. Even if it seems like everyone else already has a friend group, most freshmen are also feeling nervous and maybe a bit awkward.
The good news is that college is a great time in life to meet new people, you may just have to put yourself out there a little.
Remember That Everyone Else Is Also New
At the start of the semester, almost everyone is looking for friends. Even the people who seem super social might be wondering who they’ll sit with at the dining hall or who they’ll hang out with on weekends. You are definitely not the only one figuring it out as you go.
Say Yes to Things
During the first few weeks, try saying yes more often. Go to the RA led dorm events, grab dinner with people after class, join a study group, or plan to go to campus events.
You don’t, and won’t, become close friends with everyone you meet.
Join Something
Clubs, greek life, intramural sports, volunteer groups, and campus jobs are some of the easiest ways to meet people because you already have something in common.
You also don’t need to join a million activities. Even one or two groups can help you build connections naturally, while you do something you’re interested in!
Give It Time
One of the biggest misconceptions about college is that everyone instantly finds their lifelong best friends during the first week. Sometimes that happens, but usually friendships take time.
It’s completely normal for things to feel awkward at first. Your friend group will probably change and grow bigger throughout your entire college experience.
Final Thoughts
Making friends in college is less about being super outgoing and more about staying open, going to events, and giving yourself time to settle in.
Most friendships start with things like walking to class together, sitting next to someone in the dining hall, or conversations in your dorm.